Happy Adoption Week!
It’s time to talk about adoption.
It’s officially National Adoption Week! As many of you know, we have what we think is a pretty incredible adoption story to tell. This week, that story was shared by Metro, a UK based news website. We are so honored to be apart of their Adoption Month series and we just wanted to take a moment and share on this platform why this story is so important.
Our story, of course, is not a usual story and I could go into the details, but we’ve discussed it here before and Metro did an amazing job telling our story and you can read it here. But I wanted to talk about how important it is to celebrate adoption and how wonderful it has been in our life. I adopted Ava and Alexis when I married Ami and they are my children. No questions, no argument.
With great adoption, comes great responsibility.
Adoption is-and should be-more than signing a few pieces of paper and changing last names. There is an incredible responsibility that I gained when I adopted the girls. It’s a responsibility to become their father, protector, teacher, provider, and encourager. It’s the exact same responsibility I have towards Jersey. I love my children and I wouldn’t change a second of my life since those beautiful girls came into my life.
In my opinion, adoption is one of the most selfless acts any person could take on. And I am not just saying this because I did it. But, I say that because of my experience and how it changed my perspective. I went from a life of womanizing, drugs, and alcohol to a life full of serious responsibility as a father and husband almost overnight.
I sobered up before I met Ami, but that time of my life seemed like it flew by so fast. Taking in a child who is not your blood and raising them and loving them as if they are is a promise few can make and keep.
I am so grateful that I have had the opportunity to love these girls and show them the love that only a father can provide. They are hardworking, talented, tenacious girls and it’s the best job in the world to be their dad.
Do your research.
This week, as we celebrate Adoption Week, take a few moments to do a little research of your own, and learn what it takes to be an adoptive parent. I’m not asking you to become one, I just want you to get a glimpse of what it takes to go through the process.
While you’re at it, look into the foster care system and see what the process can look like for the children who need parents who will care for them. I know this is a difficult subject to discuss, but If we have the opportunity to bring some attention to the issues that the foster system and adoption agencies face, I am going to take it.
Ava, Alexis, Jersey, and Ami are the best part of my life and I am nothing without them. Thank you for following us on this journey and to those who have supported us from the beginning, I cannot thank you enough.
Tell us your adoption story!
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